Fighting For Arizona's Children

Adam's latest claim that my work as a child advocate makes me a danger to my children...

I have to wonder what about my activism against child abuse, family annihilators and such does Adam Marc James find such a threat?  Why would he find it a threat unless he is a danger to our children and society?  You know, Family Annihilators are predominantly white, at least my research is showing this to be true.  Also, FA"s are also middle aged as Adam is... you would think that instead of finding it threatening that I am appalled at the number of killings that are going on in this country, Adam would find it comforting to know that I am working to protect all children, not just ours, from predators.  The question is, if Adam Marc James is threatened by my fight to protect children from predators, is Adam Marc James a predator?

From: Judy <judith.morse@azbar.org>
To: kathy Miholich <kathymiho@hotmail.com>
Cc: Adam James <amj219@hotmail.com>; Fredrick Jones-atty <fjoneslaw@yahoo.com>
Sent: Thu, February 25, 2010 8:00:08 AM
Subject: Status of report

Dear Ms. Miholich,
 
Please provide us with a status of your report to the Court concerning this matter.  My client has growing concerns about the stability of Ms. Abrams and is concerned about the safety of his children.  He has circulated to all the most recent statements from Ms. Abrams and it would appear that his growing concerns may have some merit.  Her writings are becoming more hostile, aggressive and outlandish.
 
I look forward to hearing from you.
 
Sincerely,
 
Judy Morse
 
Judith A. Morse
Judith A. Morse, P.C.
7220 North 16th Street , Suite D
Phoenix , Arizona 85020
judith.morse@azbar.org
602-277-6900 (office)
602-279-6698 (fax)

 So, I guess kathleen finally has enough info together to recommend removing me from the girls' lives.... really why else would she be writing to the judge.  Notice her bias.. My question is it just because I asked her to do her job? Or is it because she is part of the Father's Rights Movement?   I mean, really there has to be an underlying reason for all of this, what is it Kathleen?  Are you upset because you attempted to antagonise me and I didn't take the bait?  Let's see if she responds to this message, after all she texted me that she responds to every message she gets!

On Mon, Feb 22, 2010 at 12:11 PM, kathy Miholich <kathymiho@hotmail.com> wrote:

I am working on it tgoday and tomorrow and want to get it done then.  I was in a quandry about how to approach the court, long narrative with all that has happened or just a summary with issues that need to be resolved and rec for orders...was not sure how to proceed.  Had a meeting with collegues about other matters on Sunday and asked them the question without out any identifiying information. Overwhelmingly they said to send a summary since this judge very well knows the case...so that is what I am doing today.  I had been doing the nattative but was overwhelmed with the amount of data that has piled up over the year. 
 

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From: amj219@hotmail.com
To: kathymiho@hotmail.com
Subject: New developments
Date: Sun, 21 Feb 2010 16:57:22 +0000

This is the newest posting from Miss Abrams' website. Miss Abrams is planning on purposefully provoking a confrontation in front of the children and in violation of the court order and the OOP. When will the report be finished? This was specifically discussed in our last session. I have had enough of Miss Abrams disrupting our lives and hurting the children. Were you aware that Miss Abrams is discussing her website with the children? I am letting you know right now in advance, I will not let Miss Abrams cause a scene in front of the children (isn't this the person who sent you an email about not being served in front of the children so they are not exposed to these things?).  This is stalking and harassment. If she does show up I will be enforcing the OOP and I will press charges. It is so frightening to sit by and watch while Miss Abrams spins further and further out of control. Please let me know when the report will be done.
 
Just like he believes that I can not attend Girl Scouts.  Adam, Girl Scouts are held at Coco's... it's a public place and I believe that you are out of luck.  I will be double checking that and then I will begin to attend girl scouts.... I can go to Coco's and sit there and watch them as long as I do not approach you. 
 
I thought you would find this interesting also. There are postings about my mother, my wife, and myself in the same fashion.
 
Kathleen Miholich -
Kathleen is the parent coordinator assigned to the case.  She has been on it for a year and has yet to accomplish anything positive.  Can she be sued for false advertisement?  She advertises that she is a reunification expert... reunifying what?
Along with my epiphany about Adam and his mental impairment, I have had an epiphany about Kathleen.  I realize that she isn't writing her report because I have not given her enough to recommend severing my parental rights.  The meeting with Rkonn Lavit was supposed to accomplish that, however Ronn didn't support her.  She is desperately attempting to work with Adam to make me "lose it." 
Friday, R told me that Adam is telling her that he is going to sign her up for soccer, games are on Saturdays.  I texted Kathleen about this because he can not arrange activities on my time.  Kathleen didn't respond the first text, so I texted her again.  When she responded I thanked her for responding.  She texted back that she always responds when she gets a message.  It was a set up for me to text her back calling her a liar.  I have ample proof as to the lie that is.  Seeing her text, I realized what it was about and didn't respond.  I just saved the text for when we go to court.  I have other texts that she never responded to.  Now, I can use it to impeach her credibility, it's good enough for me.
This is the woman who is responsible for granting me more time with my children.  Does anyone see a problem here?  Prior to this she kept saying that she was waiting for Drs. Kim Wright and Mary Vucherivich (sp?) to recommend more time.  Mary did so in writing and Kim did so in front of me on the Thursday prior to the last night of Channukkah, yet here we are almost 3 months later and Kathleen has still failed to recommend or write anything to Hilliard. Why?  There can only be one reason.  I am always saying that actions speak louder than words... your lack of action is screaming, Kathleen.

So, Adam gives the impression of being "Mr. Nice Guy" - total Sociopathic Personality Disorder.  The problem is, is that Kathleen Miholich is too afraid and intimidated to call Adam out on his behavior.  This is the same man who created a battle over Twinkle Toe Sketchers.

 kathy Miholich to Adam, me
show details Jan 15

Are you wanting a joint appointment? 
 
I am happy to do that but Lisa says she has no funds for any appointments, so you will have to figure out about that before setting an appointment.
 
Let me know what you want to do/
 
Kathleen
 

From: amj219@hotmail.com
To: kathymiho@hotmail.com
Subject: name change issue
Date: Fri, 15 Jan 2010 20:18:16 +0000

Upon further consultation with my attorney's office, they suggested that instead of litigating the issue of a name change for the children in court at this time (an event that is both expensive and time consuming) that it might be possible to set an appointment with you to try and mediate or broker some kind of agreement or compromise about the children's name.
 
I understand that the current situation regarding this case is volitile to say the least but in the hopes of an amacable outcome to this issue I would like to ask for an appointment to discuss and hopefully come to some kind of arrangement regarding the children's name. If this suggestion is not doable, please let me know. Thank you in advance for all of your hard work on this case.

Subject: Thought you should see this...
Date: Thu, 12 Nov 2009 06:52:58 -0800
From: Adam.James@ssa.gov
To: kathymiho@hotmail.com

This is the newest posting under a new menu heading on Miss Abrams' website, www.ffazc.org
I am having a harder and harder time rationalizing Miss Abrams spending any unsupervised time with the children. The things she openly admits on her postings that she is saying and doing to the children is terrifying. Miss Abrams' delusions and fantasies of religious persecution and state-wide conspiracy against her are being drummed into the children's heads every time they are with her, that includes her daily contact at the children's school. Do you think another session would be necessary? I am very worried about Miss Abrams' mental state and how it is affecting the children. I am worried that Miss Abrams really doesn't know how to take care of the children. If there are any suggestions or a course of action, please let me know. 

This is what he sent in his email.  I think it was supposed to be off of this site.

Kathleen Miholich
Kathleen Miholich is the court appointed parent coordinator. She has a degree in Social Work and is one of the most unproffesional people that you will ever come across.
She works with Ron Lavitt, who is a big proponent of the Father's Rights Movement. Kathleen has never acted in a way that put my children first. Her primary concern is making sure that I don't raise them Jewish.
Currently, she is refusing to negotiate a payment plan with me, while she is willing to work out payment plans for other clients. Is it because I am Jewish or is it because she only works out payment plans for fathers?
I feel that Parent Coordinators, such as Kathleen and Ron, are the reason that our children are being forced into abusive situations. They put their primary desire to further their cause above the welfare of the child. This is where Judge Padilla's attitude comes from. Parent Coordinators that do not take domestic violence seriously.
Instead , they train judges that it is the victim's responsibility to get along with their abuser. Wow, if anyone ever commits a crime, you had better hope that Kathleen or Ron are on the jury. If we were to rule by their judgement with domestic violence, the murderer is not at fault, it is the victim's fault for being in that place at that time.
I can see why Hilliard works with her. Hilliard is a father's rights judge, therefore she would send us to a father's rights parent coordinator.
I received a text from my friend, who is going through a similar situation, yet her children's therapist told the father to have the girl friend/step mom to back off because the children already had a mother. Did you know that neither Shef Gandhi (I'll write about her later) nor Kathleen has ever defended my role as mother. Instead, they have done everything in their power to usurp my role and replace it with "G."
Is that the difference between a father's rights parent coordinator and a children's rights coordinator?

However, I kind of like some of what was said... it matches more with my writing style that the infamous blogs.

 did get the payment.  Thank you.  I will begin working on the report.
 

Anyone think that Kathleen Miholich will have some issues remaining objective considering the hostility between us?

Next email:

Another attempt on Adam's part to create false info in my web site.  Please notice that he never sends her any blogs that are not painting me in a certain light.  What about my blog praising him for getting the vaccine mists instead of the shots?  Oh yeah, that can't be used against me....

Please notice Kathleen's response, which way do you think that she is going??

 Thank you for the payment toward Alisa's share of the cost for preparing the report. 

From: amj219@hotmail.com
To: kathymiho@hotmail.com; kimwright122@gmail.com
Subject: postings...should I be more concerned?
Date: Thu, 3 Dec 2009 03:18:14 +0000

More unsubstantiated and slanderous lies and accusations. This is very disturbing and I find it hard to believe that Miss Abrams is not exposing the children to this venom. 
 
http://www.ffazc.org/facing-some-facts.php
 
Below is a list of common abusive behaviors to watch for from abusive men or abusive women:

Criticism about your good qualities, (Adam is always calling me crazy and saying that I am a bad mother).
Past abusive relationships,  (Adam told me that he forced a former girlfriend to have an abortion).
Criminal activities,
Drinking or drug problems, past or present, (Adam is an alcoholic, his father is an alcoholic..history of alcoholism is rampant in his family. BTW: This info came from his sister Kerri James).
Mood swings,
Discourages your successes,
Jealousy,
Abusive family members or spouses of siblings,
Attempts to control your whereabouts,  (Adam has attempted to use the legal system to make me tell him my work schedules, I am waiting for his next OOP to claim that because I have driven on Bell Road, I have gone to his home).
Disrespect toward your publicly or privately,  (In court, he called me a whore, He tells the children that I am crazy and have lots of problems.  He puts me down to the children all the time.  Criicizing everything from activities to what I feed them).
Violations of others rights,
Irresponsibility,  (Adam fled the state of AZ to escape child support).
Attempts to keep you isolated,  (Adam does not have playdates for the kids.  He surrounds them with adults who support his desire to remove me from their lives).
Persistent lying,  (Adam James couldn't tell the truth if his life depended on it).
History of truancy, delinquency and running away,  (Fled the state to escape Child Support).
Highly reactive,  (While attempting to potty train my daughters, Adam and I came upon a topic that we disagreed with.  He screamed and yelled at me in front of the girls.  Also, when I was attempting to find out why our daughter, R, had made an unusual comment toward a doctor, Adam began "screaming" that I was accusing him of sexual abuse, I never did).
Streaks of meanness toward others for no reason, (Adam is a racist.  He hates all people of other races or religions.  He also likes to hurt small animals).
Threatened by relationships with men, past, present or imagined (during the few months that we were "seeing eachother" was New Years, I was sick and did not go out that night. He called me the next day screaming and yelling, demanding to know who I had been out with).