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Browsing Archive: February, 2010

Susan Smith...Again!?

Posted by Lisa Abrams on Sunday, February 14, 2010,
Hey F*****rs, why do you hate men so much? It is crazy to believe that a father should NOT get unsupervised visitation with their OWN children. Yes dads have done bad things to their children, butit is rare. Many mother's have also done bad things to their children. Don't forget about Susan Smith. 


This was a comment posted on a sight dedicated to helping parent-victims, namely mothers.  Why do men have to bring up Susan Smith?  Oh, that's right- because women are not killing their children we...

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Adam Marc James acknowledges Micro-Penis....

Posted by Lisa Abrams on Sunday, February 14, 2010,
Someone once mentioned my titles of articles and how "out there" that they can be.  Well, I do title my articles very provocatively.. it's on purpose - I want to grab people's attention and get them to look at my web site and read my blogs...

Now, saying that I have to admit that I am.. not at all surprised that Adam Marc James' is denying the abuse charges. Did anyone really think that Adam would admit to his misdeeds and voluntarily register himself as a sex offender?  Of course not!  

when I...
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The question is: Is Adam Marc James of Phoenix, AZ, a predator?

Posted by Lisa Abrams on Sunday, February 14, 2010,
In the OOP, Adam cites that I am a threat to him due to my numerous postings regarding murder/suicide, parents that kill the other parent and or their children.  Well, how is my discussing the numerous cases going on around this country in which one parent does harm to another a threat to him?  Is my disgust at Jose Padilla over the deaths of Dawn Axsom and her mother a danger to Adam?  How so?  The only way that these posts and blogs are a threat to Adam or anyone else is if they are plannin...
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Here It is! Adam Marc James' Order of Protection

Posted by Lisa Abrams on Saturday, February 13, 2010,


Apparently Adam Marc James and Gina Vandenberg James find it a threat that I am a child advocate.. what does that make them? 

Hey, Adam - did you ever read the challenge that I put out on the internet for you?  I challenged you to lay down your arms and to stop all of the negativity between us, this was your response.  So for all of the Father's Groups out there, I TOLD YOU SO!!  I offered to stop blogging about Adam and his family if he would lay down his arms... nothing is good enough for A...
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Another Father Kills...

Posted by Lisa Abrams on Wednesday, February 10, 2010,

Hesperia boy, 4, found slain in vehicle with father
By Melissa Pinion-Whitt
Posted: 02/09/2010 06:55:44 AM PST

A Hesperia man shot his 4-year-old son and then turned the gun on himself Monday in the county's second shooting involving a father and son in less than two weeks.
Jesus Roman Fuentes Jr., 34, and his son were flown to a hospital, where the boy died of his wounds. Fuentes was in critical condition, San Bernardino County coroner's officials said.
Motorists found the pair at 6:11 p.m. a...


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Rough Summary of Murders by Dads with Child Visitation/Custody Rights 2010

Posted by Lisa Abrams on Wednesday, February 10, 2010,

A Rough Summary of Murders by Dads with Child Visitation/Custody Rights for 2010
I started to wonder just how many dads have murdered their children, the mother, or other related person where the dad's child visitation and/or custody rights played a role. I soon realized that this is a huge project. So I narrowed it down to names from articles I have found that have been published this year (2010). Some may refer to murders that took place in previous years, but are only now coming to trial, ...


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Talking about sacrificing pride for the sake of the children, what about the fact that our abusers want more than our pride, they want our lives

Posted by Lisa Abrams on Wednesday, February 10, 2010,

This was my response to a discussion on Children Have Rights Too about sacrificing our pride in an attempt to get along.  I am attempting to point out that in the case of my children's father, Adam Marc James, there is no ability to get along.  This is a man who would rather send his children to school in torn and stained clothing than accept gifts of clothing from my mother.  He only will accept cash from my family and friends, they are not allowed to give the girls' gifts to go back to his ...


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Taking Back our lives!

Posted by Lisa Abrams on Tuesday, February 9, 2010,

This is a copy of an explanation of rape by Hans Schultz.  As victims, we need to do more than survive, we need to thrive - show the agressor that they did not take anything from us but make us stronger.  A few weeks ago, I finally admitted to the abuse that I have suffered from my children's father, Adam Marc James.  I want to share with everyone out there how much better I feel now that I have stopped hiding in shame. 

First of all, I had/have nothing to be ashamed about.  The shame belongs...


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Adam Mark James - Lying Sack of Doggy Doo

Posted by Lisa Abrams on Tuesday, February 9, 2010,
I just caught my children's father, Adam Marc james - SS# ***-**-2174, in another lie - a lie that is costing me money. He claimed that his mother, who teaches at the school my children attend, can not watch the children before and after school that it is not permitted. I just walked my children from their classrooms to his mother's so that she could watch them until he can pick them up. This lie is costing me approx. $500.00 a month... what about this one Hilliard?  I know that it is okay fo...

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Look out Adam James and other Abusive Parents.. The Courts Are Getting Wise - Now let's just remove Hilliard from the bench and Justice may Prevail!!

Posted by Lisa Abrams on Sunday, February 7, 2010,

these are the tactics that are employed by Father's Rights Groups and Abusive Parents/ EX's or whatever we can categorize Adam mark James as....  Maybe now the courts will recognize that his phone calls threatening my life, Gina's 4:30am harassing calls and his constant court actions are part of the abuse cycle.
It's time for the victims of abuse to get justice... Speak out about what your abuser has done or is doing to you, it's the right thing to do.


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Another Judge Fails a Mother and her Child... Why are Father's Access to Children More Important than their lives?

Posted by Lisa Abrams on Sunday, February 7, 2010,

Deadly consequences: Judges rejected mom's bid for restraining order

Comments 169 | Recommend 8

VICTORVILLE • A woman whose ex-boyfriend murdered their infant son and then killed himself had sought a restraining order from two San Bernardino County judges only days before the murder-suicide, according to court records (click here to view records) obtained by the Daily Press.


Katie Tagle petitioned two San Bernardino County court ju...


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Gina Vandenberg James - the maturity of a gnat...

Posted by Lisa Abrams on Sunday, February 7, 2010,
Oh where do I begin in this blog about Gina Vandenberg James?  If anyone is new to my blog, Gina is the mother/wife to my children's father.  I call her his mother/wife because she is 16 years older than him with two grown children and a grandchild - she is not a "young" 48 year old - she is an old crochety woman with a stick up her ass who should not be raising my children.

To this point, here is my latest issue with her:  Apparently on Thursday when she arrived to pick up my daughters' after...
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Apology

Posted by Lisa Abrams on Sunday, February 7, 2010,
I would like to take this minute to apologise for being out of contact this past week.  My internet service had some issues that are now resolved.  Believe me, I have had lots to say and will attempt to spew out the blogs this week.  Keep checking back because so much is going on!!!  Remember our rally in DC on May 18 - 20th.... California Protective Parents Association will be having their 6 week rally in Dc from Mother's Day to Father's Day, if the May 18th to the 20th do not work for you, ...
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Once again father's are not being required to take responsibility for their actions

Posted by Lisa Abrams on Wednesday, February 3, 2010,
I am so disgusted and enraged that I do not even know where to begin.... Here is a copy of an article on the St. John's boy who killed his father and father's friend in 2008. The step mother is a piece of work.  She practically is accusing the mother of setting up the boy to kill his father.

I would like to remind everyone that this boy kept a diary of the eating his father gave him and when he received ONE THOUSAND, HE WAS GOING TO PUT A STOP TO IT.  One thousand beatings by the time the boy ...

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So Many Men are Victims of Domestic Violence, what are we going to do about it? (sarcasm)

Posted by Lisa Abrams on Wednesday, February 3, 2010,
The Sexist: Sex and Gender in the District
 
 
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