Browsing Archive: November, 2009
Posted by Lisa Abrams on Monday, November 30, 2009,
Children Against Court Appointed Child Abuse - CA3
Domestic Violence by Proxy - Clarity on the Parental Alienation debate from a child who lived through it
Hello, my name is Jennifer Collins. I am the adult child in a highly publicized "Parental Alienation," child abuse, custody case. Many "professionals" from the therapeutic and legal fields resort to the term “parental alienation” to try to e...
Posted by Lisa Abrams on Monday, November 30, 2009,
Below is an exerpt from an article by Patrick Stewart. Judge Ruth Hilliard, Julie Skakoon and others have said that my children's preoccupation with killing their father was my fault. I believe Mr. Stewart eloquently states that it is the abusers who place the thought of killing into the witnesses heads. Adam James abused his children and told them that he was going to kill me. This is a fact. Their reaction to their father based on this information is to be expected.
In civilian life it ... Continue reading ...
Posted by Lisa Abrams on Sunday, November 29, 2009,
Today I had the girls with me. R wanted to go with me to Wal Mart and D wanted some special time with her Mama. On the way to Wal Mart R and I discussed getting some cookie mix to bake holiday cookies. I asked her if she wanted to take some back to her father's with her. She said no. I asked why and she told me it was because her father, Adam Marc james, is not a nice person and we should not reward bad people for their bad behavior. Then we were discussing how Wal Mart is so close, we ... Continue reading ...
Posted by Lisa Abrams on Saturday, November 28, 2009,
In a recent article form the BBC, Pat Craven talked about her success in helping battered women. One of the key issues is educating police officers.
She created a concept called "The dominator", which is essentially a list of the common characteristics she has identified in abusers.
They are depicted in cartoon illustrations, which include: "The Sexual Controller", who may rape his partner; "The Liar", who denies abuse; and "The Bully" who intimidates his partner by shouting and destroy... Continue reading ...
Posted by Lisa Abrams on Friday, November 27, 2009,
My friend took the high conflict parenting class that Maricopa County offers. Something came up in the high conflict class that frustrated my friend. It is the same issue that has frustrated me since Susan Brnovich held me responsible for the fact that my children hate their father. In the almighty wisdom of the Maricopa County Family Court System, if a child dislikes one parent more that the other, than the parent that the child likes best must be contributing to the ill feelings by speaki... Continue reading ...
Posted by Lisa Abrams on Thursday, November 26, 2009,
On Wednesday I went to court with my friend, Amy. Her children's father's girlfriend had filed an Order Against Harassment against her. The case was before Commissioner Michael Barth. I am so impressed with his ethical dedication to following the laws and not allowing his integretity to be sold to the highest bidder. Here is an overview of the hearing: First of all, there are several courthouses in Phoenix. Girlfriend showed up at the wrong one. The hearing was delayed for thirty minutes s... Continue reading ...
Posted by Lisa Abrams on Monday, November 23, 2009,
So, on Monday, my kids father, Adam James, decided to attend lunch with the girls and my mother. My mother has lunch with them on Mondays and Fridays, so Adam knew when he planned to have lunch with the girls that my mother would be there. Adam hates my mother, which is ironic since she was the one who was always in his corner until his nasty side was revealed. She attempted to talk to him about the fact that she buys the girls lunch on Mondays and Fridays. He is upset because he can't fi... Continue reading ...
Posted by Lisa Abrams on Monday, November 23, 2009,
The House on Gilmore Street"
By Susan Murphy MilanoThe front lawn of the house was filled with autumn leaves. The windows were covered with handmade decorations the children made of pumpkins, turkeys, indian's and pilgrams. For the two young boys who once lived in the house on Gilmore street, fall was their favorite  time of year. The boys ages 9 and 7 loved to roll around and play in the leaves before it was time to rake them up and fill the trash bags. They also knew the holidays were dr...
Posted by Lisa Abrams on Sunday, November 22, 2009,
I always like to give kudos for good actions, no matter if it is my best friend or my worst enemy. I want to thank the girls father, Adam Marc James, for paying the extra fee to get the girls the vaccination mist for the swine flu, instead of the regular shot. A positive sign that maybe he does care. Of course, the fact that his mother, Ellen James Gadinis, is a fourth grade teacher at Quail Run, gives me reservations for giving him too much credit. Continue reading ...
Posted by Lisa Abrams on Sunday, November 22, 2009,
I may have blogged before about Randi James and how wonderful I think she is. When I first decided to create a web site and fight back for my children, with my big mouth, I stumbled upon Randi James site. It was a God send. I found proof of what I had suspected and information that many cases worse than mine were going on around the country. Well, then I managed to speak with Randi and she was such a source of comfort and encouragement. Now, Randi has done it again! She has found infor... Continue reading ...
Posted by Lisa Abrams on Friday, November 20, 2009,
PRESS RELEASE
Contact: Elizabeth McVey
Children Have Rights Too
Albany, New York
November 17, 2009
528-505-9200
FOR IMMEDIATE RELEASE
Does it seem right that a child should be put in the position of either watching her mother sit in jail or putting herself at risk by visiting an angry and abusive alcoholic father who has said that he doesn’t want her anyway?
On Thursday, November 12, Lorraine Tipton of Oconto, Wisconsin was taken into custody ... Continue reading ...
Posted by Lisa Abrams on Thursday, November 19, 2009,
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Baby Blue Tears
"Baby, you've got to trust in what I say."
She looked up at me in that innocent way
Her tiny eyes so wide and so blue
"If you tell the truth they'll listen to you."
Again and again, she bravely told
The story of a crime so heartless and cold
They turned their heads; then they looked away
They weren't willing to hear what she had to say
Surely, they had mistook what others could clearly see
Surely, if I ex...
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Posted by Lisa Abrams on Thursday, November 19, 2009,
I wanted to write a message in here ever since he had lunch with my mother and the girls on Monday. Adam was defensive when my mother told him that she liked to buy the girls' lunch when she visited them. He was suspicious of her motives. TThat is sad, but it is typical of the person he is. So, I have something to say to Adam James: Adam, Please stop looking for some hidden motive in what my family and I do. The only hidden motive is to be nice. I understand that you can't comprehend thi... Continue reading ...
Posted by Lisa Abrams on Thursday, November 19, 2009,
Arizona has a wonderful creation called parent coordinators. My coordinator is Kathleen Miholich, I really do not like her. First of all, she is very pro father. I have found two other people who either are dealing with her or have dealt with her. They both agree that she gives the men every opportunity and excuse, yet hold the women up to higher standards. Anyway, after 8 months, we were finally moving forward when Kathleen halted everything by demanding money from me that she knew I cou... Continue reading ...
Posted by Lisa Abrams on Wednesday, November 18, 2009,
I love the term Parental Alienation. The Father's Rights Movement started throwing this term around awhile ago. I think that it is used to take the responsibility away from the parent who is not able to form a meaningful relationship with their children. When my children, at the age of 3, began saying they wanted to kill their father, I was worried. However, I did not realize that I should be worried for another reason. I went to the courts to ask them to force their father to participat... Continue reading ...
Posted by Lisa Abrams on Saturday, November 14, 2009,
Yesterday Lorraine Tipton was sentenced to 30 days in jail because she can't force her 11 year old daughter to spend time along with the father that has been molesting her. Even though psychologists and CPS believe that the child has been sexually abused, the judge is demanding that the child go for unsupervised visitations with her father. Why? This is what I question. It just doesn't make any sense. I can't understand a world that does not seek to protect its future. Our children are o... Continue reading ...
Posted by Lisa Abrams on Thursday, November 5, 2009,
Did you know that you can file a complaint or issue with the Commission that reviews judges performance? Just go to info@azjudges.info and let them know that our judges are CORRUPT!!!! Don't be afraid, Stop the violence, End the Silence!!! Continue reading ...
Posted by Lisa Abrams on Monday, November 2, 2009,
I understand if people are afraid to put their names on the website, from the petition I have found that other victims of the Maricopa County Family Court System are out there. I would like to invite you to email me at ffazc.org@gmail.com. The only way to protect ourselves and our children is to unite and fight back. Continue reading ...
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About Me
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My children were legally kidnapped on April 4, 2008 with the aid of Judge Pro-Tem Susan Brnovich. They reside with their father, Adam Marc James and attend the elementary school that his mother, Ellen James, teaches at.
My children have no one to turn to for help. Their teachers will tell their father anything and everything they say to them. It dows not matter that teachers are mandatory reporters, because Ellen James is a coworker.
I realize that this fight may take the entire length of my children's youth. I am determined that they know I never gave up, that their children have a better future and that I provide protection against the abuse they suffer from Adam Marc James the only way I can, I make it public and shame him into not abusing them.
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